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Finding Miss or Mr. Right is not always an easy thing to do. Once you think you've found the right person, you may have doubts. Having doubts about who you are marrying is not only normal, having doubts is healthy.

Hopefully you already know that you shouldn't marry someone who spends too much, works too much, brags too much, uses drugs or other illegal behavior, or is unfaithful, cruel, or dishonest.

If your future spouse is free of those destructive behaviors and you are still having doubts about getting married, read through these statements. You will see if your doubts are reasonable and worth paying attention to or if you are having cold feet about getting married without having any rational reasons.

1.       He always brags about you

2.       He makes sacrifices for you — and you're happy to do the same for him

3.       He shares the same values as you

4.       Even after years together he still does little chivalrous things for you

5.       He doesn't try to change you

6.       When you think about marrying him, the best part isn't the wedding, it's the idea of spending your lives together

7.       You survived a long-distance relationship

8.       "I miss you" isn't just a sweet thing you say

9.       You don't like having a roommate and love having your own space, but you'd still prefer to live with him

10.   He's your go-to person whenever you have a story to share, about work, about friends, about anything

11.   You feel comfortable planning things six months — or a year — into the future

12.   You can cry in front of him without feeling embarrassed

13.   When your friends complain about their significant others or the guys they've gone out with, you get kind of quiet because you don't have much to contribute

14.   He's close with your family, and he's made sure you've gotten to know him

15.   He cares about your friends

16.   He lets you vent

17.   He tells you, out of the blue, that you look hot

18.   You can do things like travel together without fighting all the time

19.   Family and Background

20.   Don't Be Overly Idealistic

21.   Mutual Attraction

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